This is a recently received letter from a close friend who is a woman of some renown. Everyone’s lives will be affected by Trump if he is elected.
This could happen to you. This could happen to any woman.
Names have been omitted to protect the privacy of the author.
———————
Dear Family and Friends,
If you know me, then you know that it is rare for me to share personal stories. I don’t even share personal contacts which is why you all are blind copied on this email. However, I am compelled to share this personal experience with you to make an important point (and I believe) for your own benefit.
Lest anyone think that the standards of a prospective Trump administration “won’t be that bad” or simply won’t have ill effect on you because somehow you will be exempt from the ramifications of his administration’s policies, consider this:
When my partner and I were starting our family we got pregnant with our first child easily and happily. We assumed we would be able to have a second child just as easily. Indeed, two years later we were expecting our second child. However, for reasons unknown, I miscarried in the fifth month. The fetus just quietly and irrevocably died. I knew something was wrong because all of a sudden I did not feel pregnant anymore. However, I was not actively discharging the remains (miscarrying) and once the doctor confirmed the fetus was no longer viable he had to perform an abortion to remove it.
Fortunately, at the time I had full bodily autonomy. I did not have to carry a dead fetus in me until it made me ill or destroyed my fertility. I was able to get the medical care that I needed when I needed it and on my terms. And I was able to go on and have the little sibling who my first child yearned for, our beautiful, second child. And my doctors were able to provide the necessary medical care without threat of imprisonment or loss of their medical license.
If the same set of circumstances happened today in 25+ states in the USA, I would not have the human right, the privacy, the bodily autonomy to make the necessary decision to preserve my health and my reproductive rights. Under a Trump administration and Republican Congress, I and all women regardless of socio economic status or age will have no options. We will not have the right to receive the necessary health care.
To make it simple and clear: imagine a world without my child. If my partner and I were faced with the same circumstances today, living in a state with extreme limitations on abortion access, we would not have been able to obtain the care that allowed us to ultimately have our second child.
Even if you do not particularly care about women’s health care and bodily autonomy for all citizens, a Trump administration will affect each of you in ways that you can not imagine, do not want to believe, or simply think you are an exception to. While Trump may position himself as above the law and an exception to every legal and social norm, he and his “team” do not think you are entitled to the same standing.
This election is about voting for the rule of law and preserving our democracy, about all citizens having equal rights under the law. It is not only about the price of eggs or gas or housing or tax rates or foreign policy or any other issue that we normally would be debating and voting on. This is about voting in support of our democracy and the rule of law, or not.